Hopefully, the following will clear up some of the confusion that seems to exist about the difference between shit tests and shitty behavior.
Definition Of A Shit Test
When a woman says or does something that is borderline rude or disrespectful in order to see how much of a dominant personality a man really has.
The way a woman shit tests a potential suitor is a reflection of her personality and character. Women with basic human decency will never shit test a man in a blatantly bitchy or disrespectful manner.
Example Of A Shit Test
During a first encounter in a bar, a woman asks, “So, are you going to buy me a drink?”
Women with such nerve aren't asking because they're thirsty. They're asking because they want to see how easy you are to manipulate and control. Buy her a drink and you fail the test, meaning no nookie for you, because there's no challenge in turning a nice guy into a door mat. Turning a 'real man' into a door mat, now, that's a challenge. At least, that's the way AW think. A good response to this shit test would be: “No, but if you play your cards right, I might just have a surprise for you…”
Shit Test Frequency
The number of shit tests you’ll experience per dozen approaches will be inversely proportional to the tightness of your game. If you find yourself being constantly shit tested, it’s generally a sign that you need to work on your game.
By the same token, if you see a game ‘guru’ spending an inordinate amount of time writing about shit tests, it’s probably a sign that his game also needs work. This is because, as mentioned in my post on game:
High level game is about being proactive and in total control of every aspect of every step of the hunt from the moment you break the ice until the moment you close the deal.
When your game is that tight, 9 times out of 10, babes who are genuinely interested in you will usually be too intrigued and too aroused to even think about shit testing you. Instead, they’ll just sit back and enjoy the ride the way God intended it to be.
Focus on improving your game and first encounter shit tests will generally take care of themselves. At some point though, you’re almost always going to have to lay down the law about basics such as being punctual and answering cell phones while she's with you. You are, afterall, dealing with children in adult bodies.
Definition Of Shitty BehaviorAny behavior which is unacceptably rude, inconsiderate or disrespectful should not be viewed as a shit test even if it was intended as such. Instead, it should be viewed for the shitty and unacceptable behavior that it is.
To put it another way, shitty and unacceptable behavior from a woman is not a shit test, it is the sign of a shitty and unacceptable woman. If you have any self respect at all, it should also be a sign to immediately walk away. Any male who confuses shitty behavior for shit tests and foolishly tries to prove his worthiness to the shitty female conducting the so called shit test is a mangina. The only thing he’s really proving is his willingness to be a bitch’s bitch.
Most ‘Shit Tests’ Are Not Really Shit TestsIn contrast to the example given above, most of the so called shit tests that guys experience or read about are not really shit tests. They’re usually either:
1. Signs of disinterest or
2. Signs of a woman's shitty behavior & character
Men with self respect, regardless of whether or not they have game, don’t put up with any of the above. In the first scenario, they just walk away. In the second scenario, if warranted and prudent, they give the bitch a piece of their mind before walking away or showing her the door.
Men who truly understand the flaky nature of women in general and the rampant shitty behavior of AW in particular will rarely put themselves in a position (logistically, emotionally or legally) where, if necessary, they can’t walk away from them in 30 seconds flat.
Uzem & Luzem
