Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Happy New Year!


3 comments:

z.g. said...

This I will be posting in my three favorite blogs, by men who seem to be similar to me, and who seem to be moving/have moved towards the same direction as me.
It is more like a rant, but any advice that may come out of this is to my benefit, and any lesson any man can take out of it, will be to their benefits, as these bloggers have done for me.
During a party I attended on the weekend, an acquaintance told me, after telling me “Your reputation precedes you”, that “The girls all want you badly, but they are afraid you will be using them “
To give an explanation, I am an intelligent guy, good looking, aggressive looking and an attitude definitely not nice, but also not hardcore asshole. As I will explain later, herein lies the problem.
To further help my point, the dude who told me that is a gym instructor, is married, has two kids, is what girls would call a “cute asshole”, and he has slept with unknown number of women in the gym, women who all know that he is married and is a father of two.
I divide men into a few groups, from the attractiveness point of view, and have seen that women have different modes of operation towards these men, mind you, these are my observations and experiences, so scientifically they may not be valid. And I am talking about attractiveness to girls from 6 to up, as I have no interest in anything less attractive myself.
The Invisible: this is the Under-Average Joe. Invisible to these girls, with a change in attitude, may rise to the next level, but very difficult, as he is, invisible. Nice or not nice.
The Average Joe : Women know these guys exist, and maybe even will sleep with him in their prime, if the winds of luck were blowing towards him. Usually nice guys, if they display attitude or status, they may get laid more often, i.e. Increasing the lucky numbers on a dice. Still, these average less lifetime partners than the Average Jane. (one has to keep in mind the overreporting and underreporting issues in the surveys) This and the upper compose 80% of men.
The Nice Attractive Dick: Past-prime marriage material. Better than Average Joe, but still these are the dudes who get sex mainly in relationships. Spontaneous fucking in high numbers is kind of out of their reach. 15%...
The Bad/Lesser Attractive Dick : Now we are moving up a good number of levels, these guys are in a realm, that the Average Joe possibly gets a hint of, these men get laid quite often, but lack the qualities that would make them the ideal life partner for women. But getting laid, oh yes. (2%)
“The One” Dick: This man is more attractive than “the Bad/Lesser Attractive Dick”, sexually and long term. This is the man who women look at and whisper to their girlfriends about, and is the man they want to commit to. (and herein lies the curse). This man is confident, has intelligence, the status, usually the looks, and has attitude. Swings between good behavior and bad behavior. (2%)
The Semi God Dick: these are the men that override women’s inhibitions arising from long term thinking. Few men in hundred are like this, in my observations, around 1. These are the men who rack up thousand partners if they want, and have more coming to them. Would be movie stars , music stars (rnb, rap, pop, rock), genuine assholes, certified thugs, male models, trust fund kids with attitude, and so on. Not even the top 4% of men stated above have an idea of what is going on there.
In this text, using the above grouping seems better than simple Alpha-Beta grouping. Correct me if I am wrong.
So, back to “The girls all want you badly, but they are afraid you will be using them “.
Tells me I am an attractive man
I would respect the girls’ feeling of not wanting to be used. In the end I do give a “don’t give a flying fuck” vibe, while I still (sometimes) treat them with a level dignity no matter how uncaring, unattached I am. I astill don’t call the “whore” to their face… “you wanna fuck” is more like me. Call it Bad boy with a heart, Gentleman Asshole or whatever.
I would respect it if they kept their fucking legs closed. But no, they have to fuck the drunk the same night they told me about dignity, they have to rack up 100+ partners when talking to me about if they were used by me they’d lose their dignity.
Ladies, you fucked your rights to expect decent treatment away. You fucked your sexual value, long term asking price to the ground.
When this dude told me that I thought, “bitches, this is the reason why you will not get commitment out of me”.. Tell me you want me, then fear being used, and then bang the drunk dude, or this slimy mofo,… no, no, no.. It aint that way.
You want respect from me, bang me, and then post-bang, prove to me you are selective in a way that respects quality, and intelligence, do not punish it.
See, the reason the “The Bad/Lesser Attractive Dick” (TBLAD) is banging easier than “”The One” Dick” (TOD) is this. “”The One” Dick” you want to father your child. Carry his gene to eternity, and also want him long term. TBLAD is good for a fuck, also good for genes, but not a good man to live with forever, so you don’t mind getting used by him, because anyway you are using him for your sexual pleasure. Now the TOD is a much better prospect, making you all wet and such, but you want him long term, so what do you do, you do not fuck him, and if he approaches you, you punish him this way or that. Needless to say the Semi God Dick is above all this. It is a “fuck him no matter what” category.
You can rave all you want “I am afraid he will use me”… You know what, precisely because of those words he will use you, because when you utter those words, it is clear you were rewarding the assholes etc, but being careful about TODs, and not giving them what they want, which is essentially the same as the assholes, even though you crave more for the TODs.
I know who you were fucking and who you were not. By these choices you made, you lost the right to be treated the way you want to be treated.
Yes, I will not curse at you, nor will I call you names. I will not slap you either.
What I will do, is pump and dump.
Fuck and chuck.

Uzem and Luzem.
Because when you rewarded low quality, you lessened your value. And destroyed any right to ask me for anything other than a cheap and easy lay, where I preserve the right to do whatever gets you to spread your legs, and then make a 180 if I feel like.
If you were keeping your legs closed, then I would have taken that fear of being used as a fear of being used, and would actually raise your dignity value in my eyes.
But you cant fucking keep your legs closed when horny, can you. Oooooh… but he is quality man, so he will use meeeee… Better I fuck this drunk dude, he cant use meeeeee…
And I am going to respect that?
Fuck you.
Fuck,
I was told
“If he was intelligent and left in the morning she would feel used, but he was dumb, so she did not feel bad in the morning when she left”..
By an exceptionally intelligent and gorgeous woman. Also damaged goods, (btw in this case intelligent does not lower his alpha status, but still has a negative impact because he knows what he is doing??? He is a good long term prospect?? A catch???)
And I am supposed to respect that?
Fuck you.
The intelligent man sees this.
You cunts shot yourself in your own cunts.
Btw, for the shamers out there,
I have fucked more women than 95% of men, and in doing so I have fucked attractive ones, slept with many, fucked some, got fucked by some. So don’t try “the cant get laid” shit on me.
Oh, I fucked girls from every circle, so don’t try that “Not all girls are like that” shit either.
These words I heard were the last in a long string of events that brought me to the point to either,
- Cut down the intelligence when dealing with the broads as long as I have no interest in committing
- Increase bad behavior to override or burn the long term qualities.
- Inflate the intelligence and the attitude to reach a God like image. As if I would be cumming diamonds or something.
Damn.
Your opinions are welcome.
And a last word to the ladies,
Your choices have fucking consequences.

January 19, 2009
Uzem & Luzem said...

"In this text, using the above grouping seems better than simple Alpha-Beta grouping."

Agreed - and understanding the different types of "Alphas" is important to any "Beta" trying to improve his game because it explains a lot about how WW "think". Understanding how the dingbats think is crucial to adopting an effective strategy for picking them up.

Now that I more or less understand how the typical WW thinks, I no longer give a shit about what they think (for example, the retarded reasoning they often use to decide who they'll fuck that you so accurately described).

January 22, 2009
z.g. said...

"Understanding how the dingbats think is crucial to adopting an effective strategy for picking them up."

U&L, thanks for making me laugh outloud, before you took your break...

dingbats..

Haha..

"(for example, the retarded reasoning they often use to decide who they'll fuck that you so accurately described)."

And the poor dudes out there still thinking being friends with them will increase their chances..

(It will, after they've fucked and sucked their way through three football (not soccer) teams...)

but you can imagine the disgust a man feels if this is the woman he loves saying that... "of course she will take the stupid one"...

As long as we learn from the past...

January 22, 2009

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